Things to Remember
if you or someone you know is in a relationship with someone that is abusive, or could be abusive
You are not the problem, the abusive person is!
You have the right to be happy and healthy.
You have the right to be yourself.
You have the right to say "NO" to things that make you uncomfortable.
You have the right to be safe.
You have the right to ask for help and be believed.
Remember...
Tell a person in authority, giving as many details as you can. Take a friend with you if it will make you feel better.
Be strong enough to ask for help. A violent person may demand that you not tell anyone about the situation. Be confident and seek help from an adult you trust.
An adult that you trust may be a teacher, parent, someone at your church or temple, a family member, or a parent of a friend. Even if you think the situation has been resolved, tell anyway. The person might "act out" again with you or someone else.
